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I have been natural on and off for most of my life. Getting that first perm was my mom's idea. But I am happy to announce that she has seen the light and is going natural herself.

I think natural hair is beautiful and my hair is no exception.
I have been natural on and off for the past 10 years. During that time I gave in to the perming urge. (And then did a big chop twice.) Still I was natural 9 of the ten years.
Have been mostly good. I did my first big chop when I was runing for Student Body Social Vice-President. My platform was, "It's Time For A Change." I won by a land slide. (The picture in the middle is my senior picture.)
My family and friends have been pretty supportive of me all through out my journey. Of course I get the occassional,

"What are you going to do with your hair?"

But for the most part they love me for me.

The most important person in my life, my DH, love me for me. That is really all that matters.
Where do I start? I think natural hair is beautiful. I think that everyone has good hair, it is just a matter of learning how to take care of it. I love the versitility, stylability and growth that comes with being natural.
I have very thick hair. So doing anything with it can be tiring. But I have learned to work around that and I wear my hair in styles that put hair handling to a minimum.
Right now I wear natural braids. I am rebraiding my hair in a rotation (front, back, middle) every two weeks. I co-wash every other day and use baking soda and vinegar when I have build-up. I am not a product junkie so I try to keep it simple.
When I want to get pampered or get a time consuming style, like small extension braids, done, I go to the shop. Aside from that I do my hair myself. I usually leave it natural but some times I put in extensions, If I really feel like a change I may do some tracts with tiny braids up front (half and half). And I have been know to wear a wig.
Natural braids, double twists, Yarn braids/Nu Locs.
I have learned not to be dogmatic about what it means to be natural and stay natural. I believe that if you aren't putting chemicals on your hair or burning it out with a pressing comb, everything else is fair game.

Don't get me wrong, I don't think that you should go around with something in (or on) your head all the time (aka braids, weavs, or wigs) but I do believe if the choice is between chemicals and any of the above, cornrow your hair down and get some tracks :)

Seriously, I believe that surronding yourself with like minded people will make the hard time easier. And not weave bashing is very importatn you may end up eating your words.
Learn to appreciate and enjoy YOUR hair. Your hair may not be like my hair but it is beautiful none the less.

Start a blog. Make a list of sites. Learn new skills. Avoids ruts.

Invest in things to get you by when the going gets tough.

Remember God won't give you more than you can handle. That includes your hair.
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web building, reading, writing, hanging out with my DH, self-improvement
www.naturalhaircareguide.com
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10/09/2008 00:00:00Ask Marquetta - 10-9-08285
10/06/2008 16:31:27Braids by Breslin's Marquetta Breslin403
08/10/2008 21:05:18All About Locked Hair3171
08/10/2008 20:40:11Natural Hair Basics7759
08/10/2008 20:33:05Transitioning5500
08/10/2008 20:30:45Natural Styles4084
08/10/2008 18:19:05Caring for Curly, Coily, Kinky or Biracial Children's Hair Naturally3424
07/31/2008 20:06:00August Contest: Best Hair Stories178
07/10/2008 20:41:35Want a Free Set of Braiding Videos and a Mannequin Head for Practice?370
07/10/2008 19:18:21What Can I Do on Natural Hair Care Guide?478
06/13/2008 00:00:00Khamit Kinks' Anu Prestonia525
06/12/2008 00:00:00The Co-Wash Comb Out1692
06/12/2008 00:00:0012 Hair Tips for Transitioner4011
05/30/2008 00:00:00The Paradox of Natural Choices550
05/27/2008 00:00:00My Take on Extensions In Natural Hair Care814
05/26/2008 00:00:00Natural Prejudice570
05/25/2008 18:10:37New Look, New Feel, New Focus296
05/21/2008 00:00:00Natural Doesn't Mean Undone654
01/25/2008 16:17:05My Natural Hair Story1939
01/25/2008 13:40:46A little About Me and Why I Started This Site498
12/06/2007 18:17:090 - Search100
12/05/2007 23:00:00Transitioning Facts8161
11/29/2007 16:22:47199 Transitional/ Natural Hairstyles13948
11/28/2007 14:50:31Community Rules and Terms374
11/28/2007 14:23:34New Member Welcome659
11/28/2007 11:03:23Forum Rules182
11/14/2007 19:56:00Grains, Oils and Other Home Hair Ingredients1242
11/14/2007 19:50:49Spicy Hair Ingredients817
11/14/2007 19:47:39Fruits, Vegetables and Their Hair Uses979
11/01/2007 20:39:19Locking Stages4112
11/01/2007 20:28:25Starting Dreadlocks Using Braids2449
11/01/2007 20:00:37Starting Dreadlocks with Extensions4751
11/01/2007 19:54:15Starting Dreadlocks by Interlocking/Intertwining Hair7344
11/01/2007 19:34:47Starting Dreadlocks with Two Strand/Double Strand Twists3297
11/01/2007 19:30:27Starting Dreadlocks with Palm Rolls2141
11/01/2007 19:27:10Starting Dreadlocks with Single Twists2029
11/01/2007 19:00:38Taking Down Locks1917
11/01/2007 18:50:06Lock Maintenance3908
11/01/2007 18:45:46How to Wash You Locks3272
11/01/2007 18:41:14Starting Dreadlocks with Comb Coils3024
10/31/2007 20:04:22Excuse the Dust. . .119
10/31/2007 19:48:22Technical Difficulties122
10/31/2007 19:46:59Natural-Hair-Care-Guide.com Up and Running!135
10/25/2007 22:22:24Locking Myths and Facts4159
10/23/2007 21:32:12How to Start and Maintain Very Small Locks4155
10/23/2007 21:25:58Sisterlocks TM vs The Look for Less3718
10/23/2007 21:11:11Deciding Lock Size2610
10/23/2007 21:05:40Parting Your Hair for Locks2304
10/21/2007 14:39:58Mane N Tail Plus1312
10/19/2007 15:52:59Cultivated Methods2818
10/19/2007 15:47:50Free Form Locks1949
10/19/2007 15:45:45Organic Locks1812
10/18/2007 19:23:23No Poo: Just Say No to Shampoo6827
10/18/2007 19:19:42Low Pooing: Using Less Shampoo4358
10/18/2007 19:17:07Conditioner Wash5756
10/12/2007 11:10:31Welcome to Natural-Hair-Care-Guide.com297
10/12/2007 10:30:43Straw or Wet Set9285
10/12/2007 10:24:09The Wash and Go6514
10/12/2007 10:21:47The Basic Puff5157
10/12/2007 10:14:00How to Cornrow 4513
10/12/2007 10:10:29How to Braid1860
10/12/2007 10:06:51Flat Twists3555
10/10/2007 17:33:55Hair Flouring1082
10/10/2007 17:26:07Mayonnaise Pack809
10/10/2007 16:39:52Italian Seasoning Shampoo614
10/10/2007 16:31:20Native American Root Shampoo774
10/10/2007 16:23:16Basic Customizable Shampoo Recipe957
10/09/2007 19:27:49Holding Agents2016
10/09/2007 19:00:11Locked vs Loose1425
10/09/2007 05:53:07Braids and Braid Outs2802
10/09/2007 05:50:16Twists and Twist Outs6680
10/08/2007 21:58:07How to Work with Your Hair Type7252
10/08/2007 21:51:00The Three Basic Hair Types: Coily, Curly and Wavy9935
10/08/2007 21:46:38The Differences Between Ethnic and Straight Hair3604
10/08/2007 21:43:14The Stages of Hair Growth4607
10/08/2007 21:41:09The General Structure of Hair2140
10/08/2007 21:07:32Growing It Out: The Pros and Cons14002
10/08/2007 21:02:57Doing the Big Chop (BC)6925
10/08/2007 20:54:56What to Expect5947
10/08/2007 20:53:03Eight Reasons to Go Natural3703
09/08/2007 23:14:57Transition Styles12134
09/03/2007 00:00:00Advertise on NaturalHairCareGuide.com34
09/01/2007 00:00:00NaturalHairCareGuide.com Demographics31
09/04/2006 00:00:00Amy's Test64

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